Monday, June 30, 2008

Active Weekend!

Might not sound out of the ordinary for other people, but I think I've probably just had one of the most active weekends at home that I've had in many, many years. Here's my list:
  1. Friday worked, came home and biked (5km) to gym, worked out with my trainer, got massage, biked home.
  2. Saturday got up early, picked up colleague, drove to beach, played 4 games of beach volleyball (1-1-2) at an advertising & media trade event, went shopping at the Apple iCentre, went to a lovely evening dinner/party (Danny's birthday and his and Paul's 2-year old twins got their Dutch citizenship, congrats!).
  3. Sunday slowed down just a bit. Got up, worked in the garden, went to Volendammer Dagen with Wilbert and Michael, then went to the spa, came home and made a movie for Wilbert's blog and watch Spain beat Germany in the European Cup final. ¡Viva EspaƱa!
This from the guy that used to consider a good weekend spending as much time as possible on the couch. :-) 

Saturday, June 28, 2008

Iowa Floods 2008

A lot of people have kindly asked if my friends and family in Iowa are OK after the devastating floods that have taken place there this month. Though the answer is thankfully yes, my birthplace is a disaster, and it will likely take billions of dollars and many years to recover... and now was not a particularly good time for this to happen with the economic woes of the U.S. 

This is what the scene looked like in Iowa City (where I was born and went to university) and in Cedar Rapids, where I worked for a short while. My thoughts and prayers are with everyone in Iowa.


Thursday, June 26, 2008

New vs. Old Company Photos

My high school senior photo (1987).


Company photo taken yesterday (full body):

Company photo taken 9 months ago (notice strategic use of black!):

Company photo taken yesterday (close-up... sty and forehead shine to be seriously PhotoShopped!).


Company photo taken 9 months ago.


I think I'm looking healthier and fresher. Was fun to do these over again to show off my progress. Thanks, Jill!

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Christo @ -51.25kg / -113 lbs.


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Originally uploaded by Krishiqua
Some of you asked for a recent whole-body shot of me, so here is one from tonight! Thanks for your ongoing support!

Monday, June 23, 2008

Heart of Stone


My husband is so sweet! I got home from work today, and there's a little monument built in the garden to my weight loss... exactly 110 lbs. (well, 50kg.) of ROSE QUARTZ stones (about 10 of them at 10 lbs. each) stacked on top of each other in a little pyramid. It's so moving and unbelievable that I was carrying that pile of rocks around with me every day. When I look at it, I can really visualize all the work I've done, and it's difficult to really grock the bigness of it (and the smallness of me!). And all the more meaningful that rose quartz is the crystal associated with unconditional love, compassion and healing. Appropriate. And we put a solar garden lamp next to it so hopefully the whole thing will glow in the dark at night. :-)

Sunday, June 22, 2008

You Better Work, Amsterdam!

Back to the world of the living! After rebounding from my flu last week, my first official foray into the outside world was to go to the Mirror Ball in Amsterdam with dear husband Wilbert and our friend the Divine Miss D., who performed at our wedding party as well. Was a blast from the past to see headliner RuPaul. Was also my first big gay party in many years, so that was sort of fun. I danced! :-)

Friday, June 20, 2008

American TV Summary 2007-08

Having been sick and in bed most of this week, I’ve caught up on a lot of TV. So if you’re not afraid of spoilers, then here’s the scoop on my favorite shows and my interpretation of their season cliffhangers. You’ll notice a theme here.


  • Lost - John Locke isn’t John Locke and he’s dead but probably not for long. Hint: It’s the island. There’s something weird about it.

  • CSI (Las Vegas) - Warrick is dead and it looks pretty likely he’ll stay that way. Always happens to the pretty but stupid.

  • CSI Miami - Horatio looks like he’s seriously dead and it might have something to do with Ryan but he probably isn’t and it probably doesn’t.

  • CSI New York - Mack could be on his way to being dead with the psycho bank robber who’s up for an Emmy for his fake story.

  • Battlestar Galactica - Earth is dead. But the humans and Cylons are now friends so that’s OK.

  • Smallville - Clark isn’t dead but he’s probably now under the control of evil Lex Luthor and would rather be dead.

  • American Idol - David Archuleta’s personality was declared dead but his singing voice is still kickin’.

  • Supernatural - Dean is not only dead but went to hell. But his brother probably sucked superpowers out of a demon and will bring him back.

  • Moonlight - Beth & Mick’s lovelife is no longer dead, but it doesn’t matter because the series is.

  • New Amsterdam - Ditto for John & Sara and their series.


So that’s a wrap-up of the last TV season. I guess the writers who were on strike got together and decided “let’s kill everyone” while they were on the picket line. Nice twist, guys.


Tuesday, June 17, 2008

First Gay Couple Weds in California

It was a mega-emotional moment in San Francisco when Mayor Gavin Newsom married lesbian rights activists Del Martin, 87, and Phyllis Lyon, 84, shortly after 5 p.m. on Monday. They took the honor of being the first gay couple in California to be legally married. Actually, they had already been married by Newsom once before four years ago when Newsom independently announced that San Francisco would issue marriage licenses to gay men and lesbians, but the courts eventually nullified that agreement.

People are expected to line up at city halls across California on Tuesday, so expect to see this a lot more in the news in the coming days. And while some people would like to consider this a disaster on the same level as the Iowa floods, most of the rest of us look at it as a welcome relief from all the bad news and an opportunity for once to celebrate love and the triumph of the human spirit instead of the more violent and destructive side of nature and of humanity.

I continue to remember the inscription carved in the altar above the church I grew up in: "Love never faileth."

Monday, June 16, 2008

Life in Our Garden


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Originally uploaded by Krishiqua
Now that we've finally got some decent patio furniture, we're spending more and more time in our garden. Meals, coffee, reading, etc., we're loving it. Can't even imagine what it would be like if we had a decent back yard (note foreshadowing of possible future events!). And of course the cats are a big part of that as well, since they OWN the back yard. Here is a picture of me with our oldest, Angel. And aren't I looking healthy and dapper?

Too bad I'm not feeling that way today. Came home from work early and immediately slept for four hours this afternoon. Now heading back again and hoping to feel fit in the morning. Just general malaise and muscle pain with light nausea, but nothing else. Wish me luck.

Sunday, June 15, 2008

Lost another 75kg... of clothes

Just had a bizarre experience... 

After I got back from the U.S., I realized that most of my old clothes didn't fit anymore. So I bagged them up and put them in my home office, where they took up a considerable amount of space for the last month. I didn't quite know what to do with them... about seven trash bags worth. Offer them to the weight loss clinic? Not interested. Sell them on EBay? Nobody interested. Throw them away? Wasteful. So tonight Wilbert and I stuffed them all in the car and dropped them off in donation container of a local charity in the parking lot of our supermarket.

To say it felt strange is an understatement. First and foremost, it was about $3000 worth of clothes (conservatively estimated), and it's frustrating not to be able to get any value out of that. Secondly, it was a whole piece of my past I'm leaving behind, and it felt good but weird to do that. It was a clear statement that I'm never planning on going back to that size again.

I have saved my favorite clothes (mostly Ralph Lauren shirts) that are too big in order to have them altered when I really need them. But nevertheless, I said goodbye to an important but unfortunate part of my history today. Still, it was a celebration of everything I've accomplished in the last year... almost like throwing all my excess weight in a dumpster. :-) And it was great to celebrate that together with Wilbert tonight.

Saturday, June 14, 2008

Norway adopts gay marriage law

OSLO (AFP) — Norway's parliament on Wednesday adopted a new marriage law that allows homosexuals to marry and adopt children and permits lesbians to be artificially inseminated.
After a heated debate, the members of parliament adopted the text by a vote of 84 to 41.

The three centre-left coalition parties in power and two opposition parties, the Conservatives and the Liberals, voted largely in favour of the law, while the Christian Democrats and the far-right Progress Party voted against it.

Norway thus became the sixth country in the world to grant homosexuals the right to marry on an equal footing with heterosexuals, according to Norwegian television TV2.

"This decision is of an importance comparable to universal suffrage and our law on parity," Labour Party rapporteur Gunn Karin Gjul said during the debate.

The most controversial part of the law is that which gives lesbians the right to be artificially inseminated. The sperm donor must be identified so that the child can seek out his or her biological father at the age of 18.

"We are now creating a system where the father is reduced to a sperm sample," lamented Ulf Erik Knudsen, a member of the far-right.

Outside the parliament, a handful of opponents protested with posters reading "Have fathers become superfluous?" and "Parliament has no mandate to change the laws of nature."

Among other things, the new legislation replaces a so-called "partnership law" adopted in 1993 which gave Norwegian homosexuals the right to civil unions.

The new law is expected to enter into force at the end of this year or early next year. Homosexuality was illegal until 1972 in Norway, a country which has since become one of the most liberal in the world in the field.

Thursday, June 12, 2008

Dutch Lunch Sucks

A little piece done a few weeks ago at work, featuring moi! :-)

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Bye Bye Morbid Obesity!

It may sound strange (OK, it does), but I am pleased to announce that as of today, I am officially no longer morbidly obese. This is determined by your Body Mass Index (BMI). And today for the first time in many years, my BMI dipped below the point where one is considered morbidly obese (40 or greater). I’m now a 39.9, and proud of it! :-) Because morbid obesity is a chronic illness, it also means I have beaten a chronic health condition and am well on my way to a much more healthy lifestyle.

So goodbye, morbid obesity, and hello normal obesity! Pleased to meet ya!

BTW, according to the BMI system, I’d have to weigh a ridiculously low weight to be “normal”. I will be more than pleased when I can drop from “obese” into just plain “overweight” and reach my goal of 115kg, of which I am now about 2/3 of the way toward achieving. My pace of loss has picked up nicely again with some extra exercise (lots of biking!) and I’m losing at a pace of about 1kg a week again, which is great!

Friday, June 06, 2008

American Idol Winner David Cook

If you don't know about David Cook, then check this video out (vooral mijn Nederlandse vrienden die hem nog niet kennen!). There's something about this new American Idol wi'nner's humble, laid-back attitude, quirky look and deep, sexy voice that makes him not only a really great artist but really attractive! Check him out and buy his CD when it comes out! He really deserved to win over the dwarf. :-)